Is Everything Okay?
Being a friend is an honorary badge I wear proudly. The older I get the more I am able to come into realization that the belief of friendship can differ between you and those you choose to embark on the journey with. Aside from many differences, I come into contact with many who love to overshare… or those that lack sharing, but you can feel the lack of information through their aura.
I am often riddled wondering if everything is okay or am I an overthinker. Truth be told my inner knowing, the Holy Spirit never allows me to travel down a road misguided. The pleasure of being a good friend, or an ultimate feeler is being able to seek out when someone you love isn’t being themselves.
In your 20s you experience friendships of all ages, and sometimes it seems odd, but as the relationship matures you realize it was rooted in purpose. All of my friends currently are entering different seasons; some I’ve never experienced and others I prayed so hard for God to deliver me from.
In a world that often glorifies independence and isolation, true friendship is one of the most radical gifts we can give and receive. It’s not just about shared laughter or common interests, but true friendship is shown through God’s word. This is a divine reflection of loyalty, sacrifice and spiritual growth.
True Friends Love at All Times
“A friend loves at all times…” -Proverbs 17:17
The essence of friendship is consistent, unwavering love. It’s easy to show up during celebrations, but a true friend stays firm in the storms. They offer prayers, presence and peace. Loving at all times doesn’t mean perfection, but persistence. It’s a commitment to show up, even when it’s inconvenient.
True Friends Are Like Family
“There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” – Proverbs 18:24
Friendship forged in faith runs deeper than blood ties. It’s chosen. It’s intentional. These friends become siblings, walking with us, praying over us and challenging us to become more like Christ. They are a true testament to us never actually being alone.
True Friends Help Each Other Grow
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” – Proverbs 27:17
Growth doesn’t always feel comfortable. But real friends don’t let you stay stagnant. They challenge your character, speak life into your purpose, and hold you accountable, not out of judgement, but love. They desire your growth not your applause.
True Friends Lift Us When We Fall
“Two are better than one… If either of them falls one can help the other up.” – Ecclesiastes 4:10
There will be moments we stumble in faith, in life or in confidence. Godly friends don’t gossip about our fall; they kneel beside us, pray with us and help us stand again. They are the grace filled reminders of God’s mercy in human form.
True Friends Live in Unity
“…being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind.” – Philippians 2:2
Unity doesn’t require uniformity, but it does demand harmony. True friends may differ in personality or background, but they are united in purpose and love. They push past offenses and choose reconciliation because love is worth the work.
True Friends Consider One Another
“Let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” – Hebrews 10:24
In a society that asks, “What’s in it for me?” godly friendship asks “How can I serve you?” True friends are thoughtful, present, and selfless. They celebrate your wins, hold space for your pain, and inspire you to walk in purpose.
A Sacred Commitment
Friendship is not a seasonal convenience; it’s a sacred calling. It’s not about being perfect; it’s about being present. In every celebration, every setback, and every season in between.
If you have a friend like this, thank God for them. And if you’re longing for deeper connection, ask God to surround you with the right people; and make you the kind of friend whose love reflects Him.
Let’s commit today to be the kind of friends who:
- Love like Jesus
- Speak with grace
- Challenge with truth
- Stay through the storm
Because friendship isn’t just a gift, it’s a ministry.
